Why I Care

My path as a healer, teacher & coach can be traced back to 1992 when, with butterflies in my stomach and En Vouge's "Free Your Mind” blaring in the background, I stepped on stage in a Canadian strip club to bare all.

Little did I know that this first step would serve as my 1st initiation onto the path of fire, also known as the tantric path.

At the same time, I was in college to become a Registered Nurse. Upon graduation, I received my RN license and went on to specialize in diabetic and post open heart care in a major hospital.

However, it was stripping that gave me a feeling of freedom, creative expression, and connection. It fleshed out my path so to speak.

With stripping there is a lot of competition. To succeed, you have to figure out your strong-suit. In my case, I'm a good listener.

Men talked. I listened. They opened up to me and I essentially became a naked therapist. In fact, I began offering far more reflection than dances—and no one was complaining. I was on my path.

As a stripper, I learned about arousal on a base level and was granted entrance to the inner world of men. This became the foundation of my understanding of men and my ability to provide a safe non-judgmental space.

My 2nd initiation occurred after I moved to Los Angeles, where I was introduced to an underground sorority of women who trained me in the ancient tradition of the erotic arts. Tantric massage created a more intimate connection that allowed me to relate even more deeply with men.

My compassion grew as I got firsthand experience of men's frustrations with their unpredictable "manhood issues". My clientele came from around the world and ranged in age from their 20's to 70's. Over time, I observed and established defining elements unique to the perspectives and needs of each generation.

These observations armed me with insights, informing my work so that I’d meet each client in their current state and serve as a guide to the next step in their evolution.

During my time in the erotic arts, a natural ability as a hands-on healer emerged. I mastered the activation of sexual energy harnessing it as a force for healing the body.

I did not feel guilt, shame, or embarrassment about my subculture pursuits, but I knew that my choices caused pain for those closest to me and at times I carried those burdens.

This compelled me to explore the question: "Why does giving pleasure cause pain?”  I took a deeper dive into the realms of sexuality...from the dark underground sex clubs in New York City to the soft light of celibacy. I left no stone unturned.

What I've learned is that sexual energy is a powerful magnifying force. To work with this energy for myself and the benefit of others, I had to achieve a high level of self-mastery.

The tantric path has not been a straight one. There have been times when it got too intense and I had to veer off and move to other things. I wrote several comedy scripts, retained representation and did the rounds in Hollywood. I've done stand up and improv; taught hula hoop classes and studied contract law.

But I could not escape my calling...

The 3rd initiation came in the form of a spiritual awakening also know as a kundalini awakening.

This occurred while I was doing breathwork with a male healer. The awakening felt like a GIGANTIC heart-bursting, spiritual orgasm that left me in a blissful, otherworldly state in which I floated for days after.

To understand what happened next, you have to see your mind/body as a hard drive that can be updated and upgraded with new software. During my awakening, I received the transmissions to be a Tantra Teacher and Healer. I also became highly intuitive as a clairaudient, clairvoyant, claircognizant and clairsentient. I learned to apply these gifts to my specialty of sexual healing.

Men, women, and couples started showing up in my life to heal their sexual issues and I intuitively knew how to help them. I was able to combine my education in Western medicine with my experience of kundalini-sexual energy and studies of the 5 Elements of Chinese Medicine. To ground my teachings, I created a template of Eastern, Western and energetic healing. This approach allows me to diagnose holographically and treat holistically.

Over time my compassion for men deepened as I continued to learn of their issues and frustrations around sexual performance. Seeing that they had nowhere to turn other than a pill, porn or temporary alternatives, I decided to focus on men exclusively and create healing in a space that had not existed before.

My teachings are not curricula I learned in a classroom or picked up in an online course. They are uniquely proprietary; an amalgam of my three initiations and the culmination of years of hands-on experience, experimentation and personal dedication to embodying higher consciousness.

My mission is to come alongside your journey to improve your relationships, bring you into balance and put you back on your path to health, happiness, and wholeness.